This weekend (11/29 - 12/1) get 20% off ALL products and services on WickedGroundsAnnex.com with code BLACKFLAG at checkout! That's all coaching, intensives, downloads, and even class passes!

Wicked Grounds is San Francisco's home of the kinky, queer revolution. We offer live classes in person and online as well as multi-week and daylong intensives.

Book a seat for any of our live classes through Forbidden Tickets. We offer 15-20 live classes each month, most of them online!

All events are 18+.


"In my almost-decade of being around the Bay Area scene, with all its highs and lows, I’ve never seen anyone as dedicated and driven as Mir is in making sure that community isn’t just a word, but a real place of learning and improvement. Their 101s helped me start, but it’s everything they did to build and foster initiatives and loci of learning that helped me flourish. If one of Mir’s classes sounds interesting to you… do not wait! Take the chance!" -- Aura V.



"I've been in the kink community for over 20 years, and Wicked Grounds, led by Mir, is a gem. Mir and Wicked Grounds offer the most comprehensive slate of classes I've ever seen, along with gear, spirituality, and community. Whether you've been into kink for 40 days or 40 years, there's something at Wicked Grounds to enrich your life in kink."-- Pangressive, organizer, Bay Area Bi/Pan Kinky Alliance (BABKA)
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Multi-week intensive classes



Our multi-week courses here at Teachable, including our six-week Diving Deep intensive and our Kink Class Incubator.

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Coaching & Consulting



Join Miriam Green for a 60 minute consulting or coaching session.

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Find all our classes at Forbidden Tickets


Wicked Grounds offers 15-20 classes and events per month, both in the Bay Area and online. Find all of them here!

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Hi, I’m Mir!


Kink is a means to dive deeper into our own self-knowledge and possibility. As an experienced practitioner and instructor, I can help you open the doors to both.

I've been active for nearly twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. I help individuals, couples and communities build safety, fun and intimacy into BDSM play. I'm the proud owner of Wicked Grounds, San Francisco's leader in BDSM & kink education.

Current products


Check out our multi-week intensives, digital downloads, and coaching options.

This weekend, get 20% off all products and services at checkout with code BLACKFLAG. This sale ends Monday, 12/1!

60 Minute Consult with Mir

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$175

Your (Kink) Year in Review

Welcome to your year-in-review journal. This 26-page journal is your canvas to paint a picture of your past year in explorations, play and relationships – capturing the highs, the lows, and the in-betweens. From the events that shaped your months to the spontaneous moments of joy, this space is where they all come to life again. Think of it as your personal time capsule to track your kink development.

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$9

Diving Deep: Video Class

This class purchase includes a live recording of the two-hour version of Diving Deep with Miriam Green (August, 2023) as well as the full PowerPoint deck of ideas and "homework" for the class!

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$19.95

BDSM Negotiation Basics: Video Class

In this prerecorded Kink 101 session, you'll learn how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We'll talk about: - Negotiation styles - Pre-scene negotiations - How to negotiate without killing the mood - Checking in during and after the scene - Negotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$19.95

Advanced Negotiation for Relationships & Dynamics: Video Class

Join us for a Kink 201 session which delves in-depth into negotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics. We'll talk about: - Setting your own must-haves and red flags - Negotiating for play partner relationships - D/s relationships & contracts - How to maintain relationships over time - And more!

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$19.95

Private Joy: Video Class

Partnered BDSM is fun -- but there's no reason to give up kinky play when you're on your own. Whether you're just exploring your kinks, want to spice up your solo play, or want some ideas for play with distanced partners, this is the class for you! This one-hour digital download provides the video from our January 2024 session of Private Joy as well as the accompanying deck.

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$19.95

Aftercare Kit Checklist

A personal manifest for your aftercare kit! Use this checklist to gather essential and nice-to-have items to prepare and restock your personal aftercare kit. After each item is packed, check the corresponding box on this sheet to keep track.

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$5

Kink Self-Discovery Workbook

This workbook is designed to help you become more aware of your needs, wants and desires for BDSM play and relationships, preparing you to negotiate for better scenes, dynamics and relationships as well as to stay in touch with your needs as they evolve over time.

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$7

Monthly Event Pass: Next Calendar Month

Buy our monthly class pass and get a custom "All You Can Eat" discount code for every regular ticketed event Wicked Grounds holds starting with the next full calendar month (December 2024). This includes: Online classes In-person or hybrid classes in SF Playshops like SpankLab (This pass does not include multi-week intensives -- but we are happy to offer a 20% discount on intensives to passholders!)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$125

Quarterly Event Pass: Next Three Months

Buy our quarterly class pass and get a custom "All You Can Eat" discount code for every regular ticketed event Wicked Grounds holds for three months starting with the next full calendar month (Dec 2024). This includes: Online classes In-person or hybrid classes in SF Playshops like SpankLab (This pass does not include multi-week intensives -- but we are happy to offer a 20% discount on intensives to passholders!)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$250

Annual Event Pass: Next Twelve Months

Buy our annual event pass and get a custom "All You Can Eat" discount code for every regular ticketed event Wicked Grounds holds for twelve months starting with the next full calendar month. This includes: Online classes In-person or hybrid classes in SF Playshops like SpankLab (This pass does not include multi-week intensives -- but we are happy to offer a 20% discount on intensives to passholders!)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

Rebeccalyn Mir Bilodeau (Miriam Green)

$1,000