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Engage in a journey of self-discovery

This six week course is designed to help kinksters and other erotic adventurers get un-stuck around our evolving desires and how to ask for them. This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). 


Together, we'll explore:


Discovering and honoring what turns you on

Safely exploring kink and other edgy forms of eroticism 

Trying new skills in the bedroom and beyond 

Deepening your insights into your own desires

Disentangling from others' erotic projections

Finding your voice and speaking freely

Sharing the desires you're afraid to voice

About Miriam Green

Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for nearly twenty years in the Austin, Houston, and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds, San Francisco's leader in BDSM education and community building.

How we'll engage


The six week course will run live from October 6 - November 16, 2024

This class will include six total weeks of content and homework, three 90-minute live online group sessions (recorded for later participation if needed), and at least one half-hour individual consult with instructor Miriam Green. (Our class tiers include the option to add more consulting for your own journey.)

Our three live sessions will be offered via Zoom on Wednesday, October 9; Wednesday, October 30; and Wednesday, November 13 from 6pm - 7:30 pm Pacific time (9pm - 10:30 pm Eastern time)

Sessions will be recorded for later viewing or for those who cannot attend the sessions live.








Is this course for you?


  • Do you get stuck when asked "what do you want in intimate relationships?"
  • Are you uncomfortable telling partners about your desires and kinks?
  • Have you been doing the same thing for a long time and want to find new routes to eroticism?
  • Do you want a deep understanding of the physical and psychological responses you have to kink?
  • Do you want to connect deeply with others?


Then yes: this course is for you!




Previous students say ...


"Knowing why you do kink is the most valuable asset any kinkster can have, moreso than any technique or toy on the market. Mir's inclusive framework and expansive knowledge base create an amazing sandbox for players to explore what makes them tick and how to better pursue it. Whether you've been playing for five minutes or fifty years, this class is a game-changer!" - Ari Can-Do

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